9.29.2009

Fall-tastic


We have been eating up fall and trying to take full advantage of the warm days and cool nights before they are gone and snow covers the ground. Brr.

We went on a ride with the future Uncle Ty and Boone and Crockett (his team).

Headed to the pumpkin patch
and found the perfect pumpkin.



Precariously perched plum picking. Deidra was standing on a bench...a little trick they learned from Grandma and Papa and the Christmas tree.


And we have been helping out with corn harvest. Chod has been driving truck, I have been on the dinner brigade for the crew, and Bentley and Lincoln have been busy playing with the cousins. Bentley is in the truck with Chod and Hudson is in the chopper with Brent. They train them young here.
Had a picnic while taking dinner to the corn crew.

Lincoln thinks this harvest stuff is A-O-K.

We aren't giving up on fall yet--we'll just break out the jackets for the second helping.

9.24.2009

Gincolnator

Have I mentioned how much I love this little guy lately?

And what's not to love? He is cuddly, feisty, busy, loving, smiley, independent, and silly all rolled into a kissable little ball.

9.23.2009

Post Tramactic Stress

Bentley wakes up at night screaming for me in a complete panic. Even as I sleep next to him, he calls out my name.

When I read back through my post of the missing child it sounds like he was only gone for a few minutes. And yet while he was gone it seemed like forever. Hours.

So I asked how long he was missing. Chod says 30 minutes. My mom says 45.

No wonder we're still not fully recovered from the trauma.

9.20.2009

Marathon Weekend

We had a marathon of a weekend (besides the actual marathon). Friday morning Deidra and I canned a batch of salsa, a batch of chili sauce, and 10 pints of green beans. Then Karisa and kids arrived in town and we got a phone call from the little sister--she's engaged!

The pre-race carb loading dinner that night turned into a meet the future in-law dinner with the fiance's parents in town. And the older sister's offered their suggestion for the wedding and reception. Although, we tried not to be too overbearing. In fact, I think she got some good ideas.


Saturday morning, we cheered on Chod and Chris and we searched for Bentley.

We updated 72-hour kits that afternoon (for 15 people) and finished the day off with Cafe Rio, swimming (for the kids), soaking in the hot tub (for the old men).

I'm really glad Bentley made it home alive. While we were swimming he gave us a scare. Later when I told him he almost drowned he asked "When did me almost drowned? Me almost drowned, Mom?" It may not have phased him, but it was almost more than I could handle in one day.

9.19.2009

Amber Alert

I always feel so many emotions when I am at the finish line watching runners cross. Today was no exception--the finish line was full of emotions. And as Paul Harvey would say, "Here's the rest of the story..."

The race ended in a large park that has a shallow little stream running through it, with bridges over the stream with a lot of open area and a playground in the middle. After the race, while Chod was hanging out in the "runner's only" area downing chocolate milk and ice cream sandwiches (that is a major plus in having FatBoy as one of the race sponsors), the rest of us headed to the playground to let kids unleash some energy.

It was decided that Karisa would take the 4 tired and hungry children back to the suburban (with the help of Mom, Tameka, and Dad) and I would ride with Chod.

Within minutes I noticed my mom and Karisa looking for someone. I asked who.

"We can't find Bentley. He was with us and then turned around and ran back here."

We all started scouring ladders and slides, but couldn't see him.

So we spread out. I headed to the southeast corner of the park, Dad walked the perimeter of the park, Tameka headed back into the crowd of people, Karisa watched the other children, kept an eye on the playground, and they said a prayer.

No Bentley.

I asked a group of women and children if they had seen a 3 year old boy wearing a gray Utah State shirt with a bull on it. The one replied that she had, but not for a while--wasn't he wearing blue jeans? I bumped into my mother, father, and sister-in-law and recruited them in the search.

No Bentley.

I headed over to the race announcer area and the ambulance and police cars. My head was spinning. I kept trying to remind myself that everything would be okay, but I couldn't think straight or focus. I couldn't find anyone in uniform, or even anyone that looked official. My heart was beating and I thought I can't lose him. How can this be happening? How long do I wait before doing something? The longer we don't have him the worse it gets. A marathon finish line is not a place most child abductors hang out, right? Where can he be?

That's when I pulled out my phone and called 911.

I reported a missing 3 year old, and gave his description. The dispatcher assured me that there were a lot of officers in the area and they would find him. He told me they would be calling me back shortly.

I saw the ladies I had asked earlier, they asked if I had found him and I responded, "No, I just called 911--but I think I might lose it." They were so nice and told me to sit down and it would be okay. I responded that I was going to find my mom and she could take care of me. They reported they had walked along the stream but didn't see him.

Then my phone rang. The dispatcher said he had been found on a bridge and the EMT's had him in the first aid tent.

"WHERE IS THE FIRST AID TENT?"

She told me it was by the finish line.

I met Tameka and we hurried over. I saw a man on a gurney with an IV and asked if that was the first aid tent. But I couldn't see my Bentley anywhere. They said it was and I said I was missing my little boy.

Then an EMT pointed and asked, "Is this your Bentley?"

A very nice lady was holding him, and her husband and kids were standing next to her. She explained that he had fallen off the bridge and I might need to check his leg for scrapes, although she thought he was more afraid than hurt.

My Bentley! I thanked the lady, wiped the dirt off his face, and we headed back to call off the search.

Pretty sure I had more adrenaline pumping through me at at that point than Chod had during the race.

He did it!


26.2 miles

9.17.2009

My big red car seat

Have I mentioned that we don't shop at Walmart? Well we don't.

For the last 9 months every time we drive down certain roads in town Bentley starts screaming to go to the "car seat store" and see the "red car seat". Not having a clue what he is talking about, I have tried to convince him that Shopko is the car seat store. We've made specific trips just to the car seat isle and I have pointed out all car seats with red on them. But he won't buy it.

Then Deidra told me that at Christmas they ran to Walmart with Bentley and he saw the car seats there. More importantly, a red car seat.

So as incentive in the potty training ordeal I made a sticker chart with the promise of a red car seat as soon as it is full.

He's 5 stickers away from his red car seat. But I don't think it will be coming from Walmart.

9.16.2009

Little guy

It seems like Lincoln has been wearing the same clothes forever. Getting him dressed is a challenge because I am pretty much sick of all of our choices. But luckily I've noticed things starting to a get a little small on the fella.

When I checked the tags I was surprised to see that they are size 3-6 month clothes. No wonder I am sick of them. He's been wearing them most of his life!

He measures in the 5% for both height and weight. So while he is most definitely a midge, at least he is a proportional one.

9.15.2009

Oh Joy!

Chod got up early this morning to make Bentley waffles--with whipped cream and sprinkles.

Why?


Because it was his first day of Joy School.

9.14.2009

BMOC

Tonight for FHE we learned about Heavenly Father's love for us. Because He loves us, He gave us yummy things to taste, good things to smell, and pretty things to see. We talked about flowers and rainbows and chocolate and tasted candy and smelled baby lotion.

At the end of the lesson I asked Bentley what pretty things Heavenly Father has given him to look at.

"Um, GIRLS!"

9.13.2009

Can almost see the finish line

Less than a week until the big race. The boys and I joined Chod on his last "long" run before the marathon, and it was only ten miles. Me on the bike and the boys behind in the trailer. Chod's knee has been bothering him for the last month or so, but ice, rest, ibuprofen, some PT and new shoes seem to be helping. Hopefully it will hold out for 26.2 on Saturday.

In the past when I have heard that people ran a marathon I thought they were crazy for running 26 miles all at once. What I've realized this summer, is that you don't just wake up one morning and decide to run that far. You train-and training takes time. For Chod it has been late night runs after the kids are in bed and early Saturday mornings. There's route mapping, playlist compiling, shoe fitting, icing and ibuprof-ing, energy bar testing, and marathon strategizing that go with the training. I'm proud of him for setting a goal and going after it. He has worked hard. Chod has said after the marathon he is done running, but I think I heard something similar last year.

You can do it Choddie! Make us proud!

9.08.2009

Out for a stroll

Lately I've been living on the edge. Usually I am an informed buyer, researching every little detail, reading reviews, and comparing prices until I have found exactly what I want and feel confident I am getting the best product for the best price. I canceled my Consumer Report subscription and now I seem to have thrown all caution to the wind.

It started when I ran into Sam's to pick up some photos a couple weeks ago and came out with a car seat for Lincoln. That was a very un-Nikkala move. Then I bought Lincoln un-researched birthday presents. Daring I tell you.

Tonight I googled Chod's running shoes to see how much a new pair would set us back and before either of us knew it I had them bought. As he stood here telling me he didn't need a new pair I typed in my info and credit card enter and hit submit. (Does it mean I shop too much online if I have my credit card number memorized?) After it was all done and there was no going back, Chod asked if I knew anything about the site, or if we had just been scammed.

Yeah, I don't know. I'm taking a walk on the wild side.

Apple Cider Pressing






Where in the World?

Years and years ago the Wilkins family acquired a green bikini sporting, high heel wearing flamingo named Fannie. She gets passed from home to home with the rules that you have to display her with pride and you can't keep her for over 6 months. She has been delivered during business meetings, sent home in suitcases, given as graduation, birthday, wedding, baby, get well, and congratulatory gifts. Fannie has undergone numerous reconstructive surgeries, as she always seems to be missing one leg or the other. She saw the sites in DC with Deidra, flew south to Texas for a winter with the Shaffers, and quite possibly could be our family mascot. Love her or hate her, Fannie is here to stay.

This year the theme for our reunion was "Where in the World is Fannie?" We divided into teams and set off to find our clues to Fannie's whereabouts.

We started off with a 3 mile run/walk/bike/or ride.Followed with an adult trike obstacle course, canoeing, and other activities to help us earn our clues.

Our team didn't find Fannie, but that's okay. She was found hiding out in Rupert, ID.

Not only do we have the coolest flamingo, we also have the best family reunions.

First things first


Lincoln is UNO!

9.01.2009

If I Tweeted

my updates today would have been something like:

I never thought this day would come--Bentley peed in the potty!

He did it again!

3 in a row! Does this mean he knows what he is doing?

In. The. Kmart. Potty.

Ended the day in the same Superman undies we started with.

Aren't you glad I don't twitter? Instead I called Deidra and Chod and my mom to update them on the progress. A little while ago I posted this. 1 year, 3 months and 2 days ago to be exact. That's 15 months ago.

But the kid is smart. I started out offering him a M&M. One little piece of candy. And now we are up to money, a sticker on the chart (he really wants a red car seat), and we do a potty dance after each success. It is quite the production we've got going on here.

I am now knocking on wood in hopes that tomorrow brings more of the same.

Man on the Moon

As Bentley sat gazing out the window he said, "Mom, me wants to go to the moon. But not this moon", as he pointed to the 1/4 moon outside his window. "Me wants to go to the full circle moon."